Currently Not In accordance with the Dream Reality

Written by Anne Ahira

Friend,

Many people feel frustrated because they do not correspond with the reality of dreams. For example, there is a child who wants to attend the University of A, but I did not charge enough. Alternatively, those who migrated to the big city, dreamed of getting national and even international-class jobs, but in fact obtained only a mediocre job and what they are. There is also a businessman, who may be expecting a profit jumps 10 times, even bankruptcy. What we expect, sometimes it does not correspond to reality. So what should we do? Here are 3 steps or tips that can mate do when dreams do not correspond to reality:
1. Always act in a flexible and dynamic
If my friend really want to succeed, it is necessary * readiness * to be able to act in a flexible and dynamic to any changes that occur. Now, I will make a simple analogy ... When there is a hurricane or a major hurricane, it is not rare to see a tree that has a very large fallen trunks! What for? Because they are not strong enough to bear the load received. But try bamboo behold! Due to the flexible stem, the bamboo can flexibly move in any direction, and rarely fall! Well, so anything with us! If we act and think dynamic and flexible, then we will be more resilient in the face of challenges and changes and problems that come up.

2. Think that THIS is the best for us!
When reality does not match the dream, believe that this is the best for us. We never know the scenarios that have been established. Because, according to the logic of everything that we are good, it could be just the opposite in the eyes of God! Think always positive for anything that happened to my friend. Do not let one failure makes buddy disappointed, much less frustrating and protracted. Buddy knows what I do if there is a dream or my desire not accomplished? I used to say:

"Come Ahira, you will not have to be disappointed, do not ask me why, it is GOOD for you! Now you listen carefully, God will replace it with THE BETTER! God who knows you well and wise people. Your life is filled with abundance , and you were born For pobud be a winner! "

I used to say it in front of a mirror with confidence, certainly when I was alone! hehe ... It works for me! :-) Buddy also may try later. What I did on top of that is the 'affirmation'. Affirmations are positive words spoken over and over again and is believed to form a positive image to reduce the negative attitudes in ourselves. Words of affirmation can we make / design their own, and then can be spoken verbally or silently. According to experts Hynotherapy, affirmation will be 'captured' by our subconscious. And when repeatedly spoken and with confidence, then we ARE or WILL be like it is, we say! In other words, affirmations are like prayers. Okay, now the next! Although at this time what we expect is not in accordance with the dreams, but we must ....

3. Stay Prepare MENTAL WINNER!
When we fail, it's better than blaming fate self introspection. Who knows, we are not ready to be a winner! :-) It could be that success will only make us proud, and because so unfortunately God gives us, He does not want His servants to sin. :-) Dude, every win is better than any sweat pioneered us! It would be better if we get the victory step by step. Many successful people, but then they fell. There are up again, there is not. Twists every human life is not the same. But remember, a chance to win it is always open to anyone, without exception! Fortune and victory indeed for multitude of God, many still hanging in the sky! :-) Now just how buddy! Is willing to grab it? or expect down by itself? I suggest, do not ever choose the latter :-) We all know that the name victory was often owned by those who ... ill never stop trying!